Free to pass on.

Somebody gave you this because it was useful to them.

Short, designed to be read in one sitting and handed to the next family. Print it, email it, photocopy it — no permission needed. The only conditions are that you don't sell it, don't cut it up, and keep the author's name on it.

  • why a trained dog can still be an unmanageable household
  • the house as a map
  • six systems the whole family runs the same way
  • the words everyone uses, so he hears one voice

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I wrote this for my family. Then I shared it with the people I thought might get something from it. Use it, ignore it, or write back and tell me how to make it better. Up to you.

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